The Five Love Languages Critiqued

While Dr. Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages offers some insight into how one can better communicate love and care to others, it’s core assumptions are fundamentally flawed, and the “economy of love” that it assumes is, at day’s end, the opposite of true love: self-interested manipulation of the beloved rather than self-sacrifice for the sake of the beloved.

Elaboration: Read Love Speaks Many Languages Fluently by David Pawlison.

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